I've been a fan of Paul Newman as long as I can remember. So when I got the chance to meet him in person in 1979, it was a thrill. After all, by then he had not only had a great solo career, but had teamed up with another heartthrob, Robert Redford. The Sting remains a favorite movie of mine.
I've never forgotten how genuinely kind Newman was and how he inspired me to continue down the path of being a journalist.
I was a senior at the University of Georgia, double-majoring in journalism and political science. One of my professors at the J-School had connections that somehow enabled him to take a few of the students from his magazine writing class to Atlanta to meet Newman, who was in town for a car race. Newman had agreed to be interviewed by us for a class project.
When we arrived, he exited from his trailer and I was immediately struck by how small he was. He had always been bigger than life on the movie screen, but in person he seemed downright average. But there was nothing average about his beautiful smile and his incredible patience at answering what must have been inane questions from star-struck students whose professor desperately wanted us to impress him with our journalistic prowess. (When Newman offered to pose for pictures, we threw journalistic standards to the wind and instantly became crazed fans.)
Looking back on Newman's life, I now realize that he was born into the wrong generation. He would have made a perfect Boomer. After all, he loved his work and did it for several decades, delighting multiple generations of movie-goers. He didn't retire from acting, in fact, until he was 81.
He was also adventurous, as evidenced by his love of race car driving, a sport he participated in well into his 70s. And when he wasn't driving a race car himself, he still invested in them as part owner of a racing team.
Newman was well known for his generosity. As the founder of Newman's Own, he used his fame and love of food to raise millions for charity. He personally selected every charity his company contributed to. As if that weren't enough, Newman also founded the Hole in the Wall Gang, a camp for severely sick children.
Another way Newman resembled Boomers was in his political activity. He was a liberal who used his clout to try and persuade the kind of activism he believed would result in a better society, including one in which its citizens were environmentally conscious and mindful of our impact on the earth.
As if all this weren't enough, he was also admired for being a family man who was married for more than 50 years to the same woman, which is practically unheard of in Hollywood. He was loved by neighbors and respected by his community. Instead of retreating to his mansion to live out his years as retired actor, he got involved in community theater.
Newman will be missed by generations of fans but I hope his example will be embraced by all of them. He was technically too old to be a Boomer, but I honestly can't think of anyone who is a better example of the very best characteristics of Boomerhood. Rest in peace, Butch.